I am drawing a horse. Sofia tries to draw a saddle on it. I turn it into a spot. She says "it is supposed to be a saddle." I say "I don't want a saddle on my horse." "why?" "well, Would you want to carry a person on your back?" "Yes, if it was my owner." "Why?" "Because they would take care of me." "Hmm. Would you rather have to stay in the yard and have an owner, or go anywhere you want and not have an owner." No hesitation in her answer, "stay in the yard."